I understand that, and I don't want him to go through it either. But none of us have any control over that. If people were able to return home every time someone they loved did, we'd have a much smaller population.
If he does go through that again, you wouldn't let him deal with it alone. So why try to distance yourself now?
What do you think he'd say if you told him you didn't want to get in the way?
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If he does go through that again, you wouldn't let him deal with it alone. So why try to distance yourself now?
What do you think he'd say if you told him you didn't want to get in the way?